Something like https://realtrac.com/ but please keep in mind I have no experience with realtrac, it is just an example. We have a the same issue I feel your pain. I built out a spreadsheet that does a decent job if I remember to run the updates. I wind up having to do manual inventory and updates. It kinda sucks. Source: over 1 year ago

"Dopamine dressing", in a variety of styles, from hippy tie-dye to 50's glam, when I'm in more of a "girly" mood. Some of my go-to places for clothes are Run and Fly, Dolls Kill, Lucy & Yak, Sugarhill Brighton, Black Milk or British Retro. Source: 9 months ago

It was in a Halloween collection from Black Milk about 2 years ago, they don’t have it anymore unfortunately but they do a big Halloween release every year 😊. Source: about 1 year ago

It’s one of my all time faves from Black Milk but I don’t think they have it anymore! Source: about 1 year ago

BlackMilk is my go to brand for those styles though they’re Australian so idk if that’s a deal breaker for you. They do ship to the US. Source: about 1 year ago

For gaming or geeky themed Hot Topic and Black Milk come to mind. I find with these "geeky" brands the construction isn't always the best though. Source: over 1 year ago