OnlineDivorce VS Divorce.com

Today I sat down, calmly, with my soon-to-be (cheater) ex. We used onlinedivorce.com and took about 4 hours to file. I calmly pointed out all the logistics of what I own, we own. Had a table made to help her see the asset split, and told her I am willing to give her 2 lump sum payments (only $9k total) to get this over with, but I would hire a lawyer and spend ALL our money to do an AT FAULT divorce if she asked... Source: almost 2 years ago

A week later, my wife went to onlinedivorce.com and started the paperwork. This confused and shocked me, as well as our friends. Like, it didn't make sense to them; yes, I had problems, but I owned them and was making pretty drastic steps to address it. Since now there was no path for reconciliation, or coming back to my kids, I decided to make it work on my own in-town. Source: over 2 years ago

I just saw the credit card charge for divorce.com. So apparently he is really going to do the paperwork. What do I need to do now? Can I wait to get a lawyer until I see what he has filed? He showed me a split of assets a few months ago. I've had time to think about it, and I am still unsure abut the house. We'll have to get an appraisal, since he's got a pie in the sky value assessed. Also, belongs in the home?... Source: 7 months ago

Except its not "feelings", it's literally the factual basis of divorce and family court proceedings. Once again kiddo, simply look at the rate of who's initiating the divorcees, who's getting the assess, and how quickly most marriages end. And using something like divorce.com to get those statistics would probably get mocked because the ones who ask "for evidence" in topics like this are treating it like it... Source: about 1 year ago