Another thing you can check out if the date needs a boost: datenightquestions.com. Found this here once and I still like to use the For Friends one for work events sometimes! Source: almost 2 years ago

#1: My wife and I turned our date night questions index cards into a free web app. | 11 comments #2: Husband surprised me with date #3: My Darling Quarantine - “90s Tapas” Date Night for a husband who grew up under a crunchy granola rock. He loved it. You’re welcome. | 0 comments. Source: over 2 years ago

If you need the vanilla software's features, trying to decide between a server software for a vanilla server is hard, there are many forks claiming to be the best. If you don't need any plugins on your server you can use a Fabric server with server-side optimization mods. The most commonly used vanilla software with plugin support is SpigotMC and its forks, PaperMC, Purpur etc. Another popular vanilla software... Source: over 2 years ago

Use Paper for your server jar, not craftbukkit or spigot. Or if you need even more performance, use Purpur, as it has even more powerful customization options and performance patches; the company I work for as a plugin dev and server admin uses Purpur on our servers. Both of these server jars are fully compatible with Spigot plugins except in extremely rare cases where plugin developers are doing bad things, so... Source: over 2 years ago