While many of us have become pampered by DND Beyond's rulebook integration, Beyond Tabletop brings us back to our basics. By removing the integrated rulebooks they allow for every feature to be homebrewed and managed how you and your DM desire. In my findings it is the best tool out there as far as capturing the feel of pen and paper while also giving the versatility and ease of access of the internet.
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The closest I've found to a useable Trinity sheet is on astraltabletop.com where they have the quickstarts pre-configured. The sheets there are pretty primitive and irksome to use, though. Source: over 2 years ago
I have a few recommendations based on your concerns. Find a VTT that fits your playstyle. Let the players keep their own character sheets. Have everyone roll real dice. Only use a VTT for sharing maps and placing tokens. owlbear.rodeo or astraltabletop.com have clean, simple interfaces. With a little practice, you can draw maps using owlbear as if you were in person. It has no automation so you don't need... Source: over 2 years ago
I'd recommend putting it up on Astral as well. Source: almost 3 years ago
Check out Astral Tabletop https://astraltabletop.com. It's like a much more modern Roll20 in active development. Source: almost 3 years ago
Astral Tabletop https://astraltabletop.com currently has my attention. A free account is somewhat limited, and I can imagine you may need to only have uploaded whatever assets you need for the next session due to space limitations, but it's easier to use and way more pretty than anything else I've tried. Source: almost 3 years ago
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